July 25th, 2004

So angry!

ok, I'm going to try and post this very calmly and clearly, but I should warn every one I'm any thing but calm.
Several days ago my hubby informed me that he was invited to a party with a couple that he knows on Sat night. I was fine with this and actually I'm usually happy to hera that he has the oppertunity to socialize because he doesn't do it often. In any case, I asked on wed and Thursday what his plans were, I mentioned that one night I wanted to go out and the other I would take the kids to the drive inn, or perhaps he would like to go out with me. ok, to make a long story as short as possible, over a three day period I asked several times if he was still going out on Sat, the response that I got was "I'm not sure" On Friday that changed to I doubt it. On Sat morning it was he was staying home, I asked again Sat afternoon after he took a nap, again I got, "I don't know" ok, dinner Sat night at 7 pm , I asked one final time, he got pissed and yelled at me saying "does it look like I'm going out?" this was because he hadn't showered yet. ok, my BF stops over we talk and decide to do something. He leaves, I come in and hubby is getting out of the shower, all dressed (now 8 pm) I ask what is going on, he replies, "I'm thinking about going out, is that ok?" Now I'm pissed. Do I have a right to be? He thinks I'm pissed because I don't want him to have the same freedom and relationships that I do. He just doesn't get it. Am I over reacting? Am I being jelous? Is he?
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