Possibly Poly continued
I saw J again this weekend. We had a brief discussion about the dynamics of our relationship. At least as much of a discussion as you can have while sitting in a pub drinking beer surrounded by people. I came out and asked him if he was actually Poly and he said yes but like myself has never really been in a fully Poly relationship. So we laid out a couple of ground rules. One being that no matter what we do with whoever else we absolutely use protection. And two that we discuss potential thirds with each other before engaging in acts. Are those good rules? I have no idea. I'm still nervous about the whole thing and like I said before it would make me feel better if I was his primary but I'll just have to be patient for that. But that being said I do trust him. Which is kind of weird because I admit I did not trust my last bf.
Anyway, I just got off the phone with him and he is already trying to set me up with a girl he knows! We are going to watch a movie with her this weekend. I checked out her LJ and she is a cute little Asian girl, so we'll see... Current Mood: thoughtful